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I think Arlina will get to come home the first part of next week. Everything is going well except that she's still not really eating. I guess that could be a problem.

It was kind of quiet today and we actually had some time to just hang out and do nothing. I took a bunch of pictures, and was even able to read for a while.

We are blessed with a plethora of friends and well-wishers. It's nice, but it can also be overwhelming. Some days there are people from beginning to end. Someone brought us a guest book for visitors to sign, and there are over 200 names so far. Arlina has received so many flowers we have considered opening a little shop.

Ok, I need to vent a little.

There are a handful of well-meaning friends who seem convinced that I am about ready to crack under the pressure. "Are you doing ok? Are you sure? Are you really sure you're ok?" All said while gazing deeply into my eyes. I know their hearts are in the right place, but really, I just want to punch them. I told this to someone, and they looked at me with a meaningful gaze, convinced that I was ready to crack.

And, of course, there's also the tactfully put question (always in hushed tones), "How long do they say she has?. Again, accompanied by the meaningful gaze.

Ok, I feel better now (as you gaze meaningfully at me).

Date: 2003-06-01 02:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-muzer409.livejournal.com
I know their hearts are in the right place, but really, I just want to punch them. I told this to someone, and they looked at me with a meaningful gaze, convinced that I was ready to crack.

Ha ha ha! This is proof positive, you're no more cracked than ever you were!

::gazes meaningfully::

Date: 2003-06-01 07:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myasma.livejournal.com
::swings away::)

Date: 2003-06-01 07:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jmhm.livejournal.com
oh, ewwwww.

Anyway, let me know if you want me to send my recipe for insanely digestible pecan pie with the extra eggs and butter hidden in it. It's famous for getting people to eat.

Date: 2003-06-01 07:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tallulahmae.livejournal.com
They mean well, and the intent is good, but that would drive me mad, too! People just don't know what to say. Turn the tables and say, "Wow, you look (fill in the blank), how are YOU doing?" Works every time! (I'm not looking at you at all right now. Really!)

Date: 2003-06-01 08:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myasma.livejournal.com
Oh yes! We love pecan pie.

Date: 2003-06-01 08:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myasma.livejournal.com
I know that they mean well, and I have been in their shoes before, wanting to say something, but not sure what to say. That's why I'm venting here and not at them, bless their hearts. I just give them a big hug and thank them for being good friends.

Date: 2003-06-01 08:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jmhm.livejournal.com
OK, the husband-friendly version (the sexism lights are blinking, folks):

buy a deep dish pie crust, a bottle of dark Karo syrup and whatever else the recipe for pecan pie on the side of the bottle of Karo syrup calls for, plus at least six extra eggs and a stick of butter. If you have really good vanilla extract, this is the time to use it. Conversely, it's really good if you substitute rum or bourbon.

Leave out the sugar. I can't emphasize this enough. The extra dry sugar in the recipe is the difference between a rich quichey pecan pie that's just sweet enough to be caramelly and something that's going to give your teeth the uneasy feeling that they're going to have to start looking for a new place.

Follow the recipe on the side of the box, only use a stick of butter and six extra eggs.

If you're feeling wicked, throw in a handful of skor toffee chips.

note: it's worth trying this with organic eggs and butter, if you have them available.

You'll have to bake it longer than it says on the bottle - your clues are the filling coming ever so slightly away from the crust, and the center of the pie feeling a little sproingy instead of mushy when you poke it.

It's easy and it only dirties one bowl and a few measuring things.

It ages well.

Enjoy.

Re:

Date: 2003-06-01 08:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tallulahmae.livejournal.com
Yes, venting here is good. No use freakin' people out! hee hee. Thoughts and prayers to you...

Date: 2003-06-01 09:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ineedcoffee.livejournal.com
swing away! beat the heck out of me! I won't even press charges! well, only if you send me a slice of that pecan pie! (drool...)

Date: 2003-06-01 12:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myasma.livejournal.com
I can't wait to try it. thanks!

Date: 2003-06-01 12:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] myasma.livejournal.com
Just reading the recipe makes my teeth tingle.

Date: 2003-06-02 04:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] langging.livejournal.com
i know what you mean. some people think they're helping, when sometimes the best thing to do actually is just to be quiet.
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