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We heard the other day that Malida's grandpa was sick and in the ICU in Thailand. He has had bad breathing problems after a lifetime of smoking. Today we heard that he passed away. I liked him. He lived next door to Malida's mom, and whenever I was there he would come over and sit with me for a bit. He would always ask me, in Thai, if I could speak Thai yet, because he had stories he wanted to tell me. He would tell the stories anyway, even though I couldn't understand. When I would ask Malida what he was saying, she would generally respond with something like, "oh he's just talking".

Malida asked me to find one of the pictures I took of him over the years so she could send it back to Thailand. I found a few and she emailed them off. I guess the only pictures that exist of him are the ones I took.

grandpa

Date: 2016-09-19 04:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] manintheboat.livejournal.com
I love this picture :)

Date: 2016-09-21 04:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
Me too--he had such an expressive face.

Date: 2016-09-19 08:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] saltdawg.livejournal.com
Mike, I feel so very sad for you and yours.
And I really wish you'd been able to understand.
All my best...

Date: 2016-09-21 04:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
thank you--I'll pass it on to Malida.

How have you been? You have almost completely dropped off the radar.

Date: 2016-09-19 11:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kishenehn.livejournal.com
That's a very evocative photo. There were definitely some sorties there that desired to be heard ...

Date: 2016-09-21 04:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
Yeah, I am sorry I didn't get to hear them.

Date: 2016-09-19 01:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brendamom.livejournal.com
Beautiful portrait. It says a lot.

Date: 2016-09-21 04:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
He was an interesting guy. I'm glad I got to photograph him

Date: 2016-09-19 02:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lifeinroseland.livejournal.com
Very cute <3

Date: 2016-09-21 04:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
This kind of captures him.

Date: 2016-09-19 03:37 pm (UTC)
ext_8703: Wing, Eye, Heart (broaphoenix)
From: [identity profile] elainegrey.livejournal.com
My condolences to you, Malida, and her family.

Date: 2016-09-21 04:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
thank you!

Date: 2016-09-19 06:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thoughtsbykat.livejournal.com
Sorry for you and Malida. I wish you were able to hear some of the stories. maybe Malida will be able to remember some of them. It's a great photo.
Edited Date: 2016-09-19 06:02 pm (UTC)

Date: 2016-09-21 04:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
She was telling me some the other night. He was a big presence in her life.

Date: 2016-09-19 07:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pinkroo.livejournal.com
he had merry eyes. I love that he talked to you even though you didn't understand ;)

Date: 2016-09-21 04:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
that was his "do you understand Thai yet?" look

Date: 2016-09-21 04:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pinkroo.livejournal.com
too bad you were so slow ;)

Date: 2016-09-20 12:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pasticcio.livejournal.com
What a genuine smile .. he looks lovely in this picture.

My condolences to you and Malida and your family <3

Date: 2016-09-21 04:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
Thank you!

Date: 2016-09-20 03:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elainetyger.livejournal.com
He looks like the kind of guy I would have wanted to listen to even if I didn't know the words.

Date: 2016-09-21 04:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
Haha yeah. When I am there people love to tell me things I don't understand.

Date: 2016-09-21 01:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vereorc.livejournal.com
What a gift to be able to send back to Thailand.

Date: 2016-09-21 04:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zyzyly.livejournal.com
It is--I love being able to give back with my photos.

Date: 2016-09-21 06:29 am (UTC)
howeird: (Howard Street)
From: [personal profile] howeird
Condolences. And what a gorgeous photo!

So sad that Malida wouldn't translate for you. That's not the Thai admiration for the wisdom of elders I know and love, especially now that I are one. :-)

Date: 2016-09-21 01:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] egg-shell.livejournal.com
He looks like a wonderful old guy. Maybe in a way you did hear the gist of what he was saying - just talking.

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